Easy going?

When does easy going become an issue?  When you find yourself living some one else’s life, because you have been too accommodating to another’s chosen path.  When you keep putting your dreams on hold for family, friends or partners.

Yes dear; sounds great dear; whatever makes you happy dear…..how did I get here dear???

What is the lesson here?  Observe, when did easy going move into giving your life over to another?  If you are an easy going person, and you like to support others, it is easy to be taken advantage over, if you are not conscious aware in every moment.

– Know, if you are in a co-dependent relationship, and release it.

– Know, if you are in a particular characterology  and which defence state you favour, and shift it.

– Be conscious and aware of the archetypes you choose to play, and shift it to the positive, choice and the gift.

– Meditate

– Journal

– Make a conscious choice, to change.

– Learn or receive energy work to heal or Lifeforce Coaching.

You can do it.  You can still be easy going, and have healthy boundaries.  It takes conscious choice.