Relationships

Relationships are the playground for your greatest learning and teaching. Particularly those that you are closest to.  They will be your greatest teachers, for you to know whether you have learnt your lessons. Whether a lesson is taught in a positive or a negative you have choice how you react or respond; and you have a choice how you chose to teach lessons.  The life cycle places further challenges into the mix of relationships, with marriage/committed partnership, death and births being some of the great challenges of life.

Sharon believes the key to relationships is knowing yourself, first; and processing your side of any relationship challenges. Many find a partner as a missing part of themselves, and then wonder why, they out grow a partner, when they start to know themselves more fully. Wholeness comes from within, not from an external source. Once you feel complete and whole within, anything outside yourself is icing on the cake.

Relationships with family can be challenged as they go through ages and stages.  As children leave home, at various ages, most often in their teenage years, some earlier, some later.  If a child has left home in their teenage years, and has travelled away, it is challenging to maintain the same relationship when you lived together.  As a parent, you can want your children to be independent and self-sufficient, so it is a balancing act to maintain a healthy relationship.  There comes a point, in most independent children, that the child will be longer out of their family home, then in it.  This can often mean as a child grows into an adult, its beliefs will have grown from what was originally within the family home; and as they find a partner and start creating their own family, even more beliefs will evolve.  To further add to the mix they will have another family to consider and further beliefs and dynamics evolve.

Sharon finds it fascinating to observe that no matter your family situation, you will seek or create people in your life that will fulfil the role of anything that is missing.  You will have or seek someone that provides nurturing, and to give nurturing to.  You will have or seek someone that provides protection, and to give protection to.  If you don’t have children, you will have or seek creative projects or animals that fulfil a similar purpose.  You will have or seek out love, attention and approval, and to give love, attention or approval.  You will have or seek friendship, and to give friendship.

Relationships are a two way street, and it takes both sides to want to maintain healthy relationships.  Sometimes in any relationship, you will have one person wanting more then the other can provide, or you can have some people so busy with life they forget to remember to maintain healthy relationships.  In any relationship the best thing you give each other is time.  Time to listen, time to share, time to just enjoy each others company.  Time is precious, and happy memories are priceless.

Challenges can arise in relationships when partners, family or friends have different life purposes or missions. Particularly if you seek support from your loved ones for a purpose or mission that they don’t understand. Again, know yourself, support yourself and support your own purpose and mission. It is wonderful when your partner/friends or family can understand you, however Sharon believes this shouldn’t necessarily be your first point of support. Your first point of support comes from within, and to your higher connection with self and source.

Sharon can assist you to understand yourself more fully, through specific coaching or lifeforce or individual coaching.  Just ask.